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Building Your House

November 14, 2024

Building Your House
by Melissia Goff
Educational Representative, PMC Springfield

The 2020-2021 school year has certainly been one to remember. Almost every director I visit is working hard to negotiate the in-person/virtual world of instruction. They are tired, worried for the students, worried for their program, and uncertain what the future will bring. I want to remind you that you have this! Whatever you are doing is the right thing for YOUR program. Don't stress; take it one step at a time and keep going. The biggest concern I have heard from directors is that they want to make sure their program succeeds in the future. These words have especially resonated the last few weeks, and reminded me of a reading included in the PMC Summer Student Leadership Program. What we are doing today is building for tomorrow. What will the band of the future look like? That is up to you. I hope you find this reading helpful.

An elderly carpenter was ready to retire. He told his employer-contractor of his plans to leave the house-building business to live a more leisurely life with his wife and enjoy his extended family. He would miss the paycheck each week, but he wanted to retire.

The contractor was sorry to see his good worker go and asked if he could build just one more house as a personal favor. The carpenter said yes, but over time it was easy to see that his heart was not in his work. He resorted to shoddy workmanship and used inferior materials. It was an unfortunate way to end a dedicated career.

When the carpenter finished his work, his employer came to inspect the house. Then he handed the front door key to the carpenter and said, "This is your house...my gift to you."

The carpenter was shocked! What a shame! If he had only known he was building his own house, he would have done it all so differently.

So it is with us. We build our lives a day at a time, often putting less than our best into the building. Then, with a shock, we realize we have to live in the house we have built. If we could do it over, we would do it much differently.

But, you cannot go back. You are the carpenter, and every day you hammer a nail, place a board, or erect a wall. Someone once said "Life is a do-it-yourself project." Your attitude and the choices you make today help build the "house" you will live in tomorrow. Therefore, build wisely!

-Author Unknown

Amy Hinkson Melissia is from Willard, Missouri. She performed and taught for years with the Phantom Regiment Drum and Bugle Corp. She was the 1992 Percussive Arts Society International Keyboard Champion. She graduated from Missouri State University and has teaching experience in Missouri, Illinois, and Las Vegas Nevada. Melissia has achieved many things as a director including leading top level band programs at BOA and WGI. As well as directing her concert band all the way to the Missouri Music Educators Association State convention. Ms. Goff's professional affiliations include Who's Who Among America's Teachers, Missouri Music Educators Association, Missouri Bandmasters Association, MENC, Phi Beta Mu. Throughout her time at Palen Music Center Melissia has instructed Student Leader Workshops throughout the summer.

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